When conflict arises, avoid using blameful language towards your partner as that invites negativity into the situation

Pick your battles is often given as advice for avoiding unnecessary conflict, but if you apply this advice to serious issues, it can be detrimental to your relationship. Pride, bias, and defensive mechanisms prevent us from dealing with conflict in a healthy, productive manner. But it doesn’t have to be that way. There are strategies … Continue reading When conflict arises, avoid using blameful language towards your partner as that invites negativity into the situation

There are strategies you and your partner can use to effectively deal with conflict: For starters, resist the urge to bring up past experiences that have already been resolved

While pride, bias, and defensiveness are mechanisms that prevent us from dealing with conflict in a healthy, productive manner, there are strategies you and your partner can use to effectively deal with conflict in your relationship. Communicating assertively and taking responsibility for your own feelings and actions, and focusing solely on the issue at hand … Continue reading There are strategies you and your partner can use to effectively deal with conflict: For starters, resist the urge to bring up past experiences that have already been resolved

Pride, bias, and defense mechanisms prevent us from dealing with conflict in a healthy, productive manner

Let’s be honest—you and your partner are going to have disagreements. Sometimes they’ll be small (What movie should we watch?), but sometimes they’ll be more serious (When are we going to have children?). 'Pick your battles' is often given as advice for avoiding unnecessary conflict, but if you apply this advice to serious issues, it … Continue reading Pride, bias, and defense mechanisms prevent us from dealing with conflict in a healthy, productive manner

It seems impossible to avoid stress in our lives: 2 basic ways to cope with stress

In today’s fast paced society, it is impossible to avoid stress in our lives. A recent survey of Australian adults found that 1 in 4 respondents reported moderate to severe levels of stress, highest amongst 18-25 and 26-35 age groups. Almost 1 in 5 (17%) reported that current stress levels are having a strong to … Continue reading It seems impossible to avoid stress in our lives: 2 basic ways to cope with stress

Relationship Policies set a criteria for conflicting interests

A recent US study reported that 10% of married couples meet as colleagues. With the amount of time spent in the office this number is unsurprising. However, office romances can cause problems for employers – this can range from a drop in productivity, to conflict of interest or a costly harassment claim. As an employer, … Continue reading Relationship Policies set a criteria for conflicting interests

Managing relationships at work: Ensure that there is no actual or perceived interference with procedures like recruitment, disciplinary processes and development opportunities

A recent US study reported that 10% of married couples meet as colleagues. With the amount of time spent in the office this number is unsurprising. However, office romances can cause problems for employers – this can range from a drop in productivity, to conflict of interest or a costly harassment claim. As an employer, … Continue reading Managing relationships at work: Ensure that there is no actual or perceived interference with procedures like recruitment, disciplinary processes and development opportunities