Pick your battles is often given as advice for avoiding unnecessary conflict, but if you apply this advice to serious issues, it can be detrimental to your relationship.

When conflict arises and the issue is of a serious nature to both or one partner, seek to put aside time when both are ready to discuss the issue.

Then, when you are both ready, acknowledge the current disagreement and work through the conflict by actively listening to each other. To recap, active listening is listening attentively without interrupting and then, restating what was heard.

Avoid using blameful language towards your partner. In order to deal with conflict in a healthy productive manner, inviting negativity into the situation is often a sure way to derail the discussion. However, if this does occur agree to take time out and pick up the conversation when emotions have subsided.

While embracing the conflict and dealing with it can be uncomfortable, it can ultimately bring you closer as a couple.

If you and your partner ever feel overwhelmed by your results or the ensuing discussion, we encourage you to seek out professional support. Call us.

Consider taking an assessment or working through our Discussion Guide for Couples… that’s a great place start! Tune in for more tips next week.

Do you need help with an issue or problem? Our approach helps to generate deep and productive conversations that couples would not otherwise have about their relationship. These conversations can restore insight and understanding about one another.

More tips at www.couplecheckup.com.au, tune in next week…

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The CoupleCheckup generates deep and productive conversations that couples would not otherwise have about their relationship. These conversations restore insight and understanding about one another. The CoupleCheckup can help to revive a relationship and increase intimacy.

The CoupleCheckup is an online couple assessment based on the PREPARE/ENRICH couple inventories. The Checkup assessment and Checkup report are designed to go directly to couples at any stage of their relationship (dating, engaged or married). The online system allows for dynamic customization of the assessment to each couple based on how the couple answers background questions. The goal is for the CoupleCheckup to reach a more diverse group of couples, to empower couples to deal with issues on their own and to emphasize prevention over remediation.

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