Sure, we communicate with our partner regularly, but the quality (which really matters) is not always a concern. Productive, supportive, positive communication is vital to relationship health.
When communicating with your partner, try to avoid blame, criticism, and judgement. Instead, focus on the good!
Give praise to your partner and share affirmations which help increase the overall quality of communication.
Think about the following:
- Consider attention—How do you give your full attention when your partner is speaking?
- What distractions make it difficult to concentrate on your partner?
- How do you know you have your partner’s full attention when you are speaking?
- How do you show you are truly processing the message they are sending versus already formulating a response?
If you and your partner ever feel overwhelmed by your results or the ensuing discussion, we encourage you to seek out professional support. Call us.
Consider taking an assessment or working through our Discussion Guide for Couples… that’s a great place start! Tune in for more tips next week.
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