Roles are most likely already assigned in your relationship: someone takes out the garbage, someone does the laundry, etc. But do you know every task your partner does to contribute to the entire household? Probably not.
There are household tasks we complete routinely that go unnoticed. When you become more aware of which tasks you and your partner complete, you can evaluate the quality of the distribution. Interest can change over time as well as ability; it is natural to make adjustments along the way.
Consider these questions with your partner:
- How have you and your partner divided the household tasks?
- How are household tasks allocated to other family members (children)?
- Is this process of reallocation done by both partners together or is managing the distribution a task completed by one partner?
If you and your partner ever feel overwhelmed by your results or the ensuing discussion, we encourage you to seek out professional support. Call us.
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