Discover your strengths as a couple by doing this quick checkup. Strengths are what enable you to enjoy, and to continue developing a healthy relationship. Go quickly down the list of statements and indicate honestly your level of agreement beside each one.
Compare your responses with those of your partner. For those items where you both ‘agree’ or ‘strongly agree’ try to think of an example to share.
Note the items for which your response differs from your partner’s. In the next few days schedule a time (preferably after a meal) to talk constructively together about the topic and what you both could do about it for the benefit of your relationship.
Similarly, arrange to talk as constructively as you can about items that both have marked ‘disagree’ or ‘strongly disagree’. If there are a number of these do please consider getting the help of a qualified third party; don’t risk these issues becoming terminal.
Note: Don’t attempt to discuss more than any one topic in a single sitting.
- I am very satisfied with how my partner and I communicate.
- We are creative in how we cope with our differences.
- We feel very connected to one another.
- My partner seldom seems too controlling.
- My partner is able to understand my opinions and ideas when we discuss problems.
- My relationship is satisfying and fulfilling to me.
- We have a good balance of leisure time spent together and separately.
- My partner’s friends or family rarely interfere with our relationship.
- We usually agree on how to spend money.
- I am satisfied with how we express spiritual values and beliefs
Adapted from www.prepare-enrich.com.au
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